Infidelity, Dishonesty, Betrayal, distrust.....are all points of intersection of the cross roads starting from the grandeur of a miracle called “love” shaped and sized in the institution of marriage!
With more hectic schedules, hours at work are on an upbeat mode, widening the space within a relationship only to shaken trust and raise religiously a courtship journey away from each other and close to the local synonymous paradise of freedom called “divorce”. Somewhere , an uneducated lady rightly pronounced it as "dry wash".
It takes years to build up a bond and just a few seconds to break it.
Patience and perseverance are transforming into “myths” for the fast paced modern world.
Does it mean that we (human beings) are founding these relationships on unstable, untrue strata? The number of couples settling down for easier options like live-in relationships is an evidence for exceeding the limits of expectations of the society.
The youngsters are feel that the heritage of marriage is like a taboo to the flight of freedom due to the restrictions, the want of us or we than I, the constant remembrance of do’s and don’ts.
In a way, marriages tend to violate the limits of personal freedom to certain extent since a marital bliss could snatch away the individuality of a girl or a guy due to the social obligations that are baggaged.
The marriage is an institution which intervenes in an individual’s space to survive; this persuades the evolution of unpleasant relationship and then a struggle to satisfy one’s needs through infidelity.
With changing times, women are opening up and voicing their opinions fearlessly breaking all the illusions of natural code of conduct for women made by handful men.
Most of the couples who have completed a golden era of their married lives have to be given their due credit since they have survived the pressures and emerged successfully!
Tolerance has somewhere been the mantra for the success of any relationship, which unfortunately is disappearing gradually and being replaced by stress and emotional imbalance. Marriages are neither legalized compromises to have legitimate children nor are they institutions teaching the master’s degree course in “adjustment management in organizations”!!
Since olden times, marriages have been famous channels of barter. Thus, making them highly vulnerable to omission. The barter which does not allow passage of thoughts, love, trust and happiness but of goods and wealth.
The system of dowry has rottened the well being of Indian society; unfortunately our culture has been graceful enough to accommodate drug addiction in its rigid format but not the eradication of dowry system. We must accept that we have a partial and selfish acceptance policy towards concepts of the western world. do we all really care to change all this atleast at a microlevel?
i always thought to myself why all people who dare have to play the tough ball?
Iis because they dare to dare or is it because society scares people who dare so that the barter goes on in the name of marriages,,supposedly a heavenly abode.(all taxes and bills paid by courteous brides bandwagon!!!)
TFC
With more hectic schedules, hours at work are on an upbeat mode, widening the space within a relationship only to shaken trust and raise religiously a courtship journey away from each other and close to the local synonymous paradise of freedom called “divorce”. Somewhere , an uneducated lady rightly pronounced it as "dry wash".
It takes years to build up a bond and just a few seconds to break it.
Patience and perseverance are transforming into “myths” for the fast paced modern world.
Does it mean that we (human beings) are founding these relationships on unstable, untrue strata? The number of couples settling down for easier options like live-in relationships is an evidence for exceeding the limits of expectations of the society.
The youngsters are feel that the heritage of marriage is like a taboo to the flight of freedom due to the restrictions, the want of us or we than I, the constant remembrance of do’s and don’ts.
In a way, marriages tend to violate the limits of personal freedom to certain extent since a marital bliss could snatch away the individuality of a girl or a guy due to the social obligations that are baggaged.
The marriage is an institution which intervenes in an individual’s space to survive; this persuades the evolution of unpleasant relationship and then a struggle to satisfy one’s needs through infidelity.
With changing times, women are opening up and voicing their opinions fearlessly breaking all the illusions of natural code of conduct for women made by handful men.
Most of the couples who have completed a golden era of their married lives have to be given their due credit since they have survived the pressures and emerged successfully!
Tolerance has somewhere been the mantra for the success of any relationship, which unfortunately is disappearing gradually and being replaced by stress and emotional imbalance. Marriages are neither legalized compromises to have legitimate children nor are they institutions teaching the master’s degree course in “adjustment management in organizations”!!
Since olden times, marriages have been famous channels of barter. Thus, making them highly vulnerable to omission. The barter which does not allow passage of thoughts, love, trust and happiness but of goods and wealth.
The system of dowry has rottened the well being of Indian society; unfortunately our culture has been graceful enough to accommodate drug addiction in its rigid format but not the eradication of dowry system. We must accept that we have a partial and selfish acceptance policy towards concepts of the western world. do we all really care to change all this atleast at a microlevel?
i always thought to myself why all people who dare have to play the tough ball?
Iis because they dare to dare or is it because society scares people who dare so that the barter goes on in the name of marriages,,supposedly a heavenly abode.(all taxes and bills paid by courteous brides bandwagon!!!)
TFC
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