Showing posts with label Nostalgia. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Nostalgia. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

A Home Away From Home.....

A friend met me over a chat conversation on internet,
To introduce to me a vision I was blinded with,
A view of a homesick toddler wanting to go back to childhood,
Might it seem impossible to those who have forgotten to rejevenate their life for sake of livelihood!


He requested in a humble yet persuasive tone,
"Build me a home,Build me a home"
In the lush greens of motherly arms,
In plush lap of the fields,
In the blooming smiles of buddies,
Midst of swaying trees,dancing crops to the monsoon songs of my sisters swinging a heavenly flight.


A dwelling not merely,
But,an enlightenment replicating my soul,
Hiding simplicity within it's hearth with long & open courtyards,
A porch to nostalgia,
A garden essaying my childhood,
A comfort to the frames in the family room,
Tantalizer to the taste buds of low lying kitchen,
A tranquility to soul in the neatly lined bedrooms,
"Oh,Dear builder, build me a home,away from home!"


A mother in disguise of subtility,
A father to humanity,
A brother to hospitality,
A sister to care and kindness,
A search so mythical,
A demand so selfish,
"Still,dear builder,build me a home...away fom home"


A symbol of trust & mirror to reality,
A shoulder to cry & lean on,
A shelter I cringe for,
A granny singing a lullaby to shut me away from the world's demanding & illusive strings,
A maid who tamed my tantrums to the matured handsome advisory,
A home that gives me a slap at the stint of immaturity,
"Hey builder,build me a home,build me a home,away from home!"

TFC

Thursday, April 10, 2008

to be a child again!

Got this image from Amu's album.Isn't the baby cute? Just look at those fists held close to heart as if they hide a treasure.Nothing and never could anything be as pure and pacifying as this!

Just wish I could live the life of a baby once again...miss the ceralacs and the fragrance of Johnson & Johnson baby soap and powder or the attention from every one around for little action done! Really miss not being as spontaneous and lively as before!How happy would i be to be a baby again!

It used to be a pride to self-proclaim oneself as a grown up.Testing & wearing all the cosmetics on the dressing table or draping mother's saree turning it round & round until it looked like a quilt folded drowning all my height and then some self admiration on looking into the mirror...the mirror was never so wonderful! Must have been barely 1.5 years when i started to talk...

OMG! people must have been irritated with me and my tactics to gain attention calling almost everyone in our middle class apartment at Chembur (btw,the cactus was born on 19th may,1983 at the Joy hospital located in a very up-market area in Chembur).

My baba used to tell me stories from epics like Mahabharata,Ramayan,Shivcharitra or the usual tales of Birbal or those from Panchatantra.By the age of 5 the cactus almost believed that her father knew krishna,bheem,arjun,shivaji,ram & hanuman personally.He has a very distinct knack of story telling which most of the young children that I have known enjoy.

My parents enriched my childhood giving an opportunity to listen to the likes of geet ramayan , V.P Kale or P.L Deshpande.Uknowingly they have helped me to understand our culture ,traditions & customs better.Our small house in Chembur had a small balcony where I used to play during rains.It used to be such an awaited activity of the year! That balcony was an alcove of all memories of my childhood....all silly games & homework would have been so boring had I sat inside the house!

Childhood was so much fun...a carefree life! No stress,no inhibitions and no apprehensions...life was much easier than now! Then even a P.T or math exam seemed to be a big Tension!

In the 21st century things have changed...children enter the rat race and persuaded to compete with or without their consent. Children are more pragmatic and matured to take challenges.Unfortunately,they grow up too early loosing their innocence & curiosity to this competitive world.Vacations to our genre meant escape from studies , eating mangoes and enjoying with cousins.We did manage to study and score inspite of this "time waste" programme.Pray,a day must not come when I have to tell my children to not enjoy their vacation and attend tuitions at age 4!Keeping fingers crossed!

TFC


Thursday, April 19, 2007

the trip to the orange city!

the trip to orange city "nagpur" was really very oxygenating.
the past 2 months have been work, work and more work, so a trip to nagpur was a good break from the hectic schedule.

i had been to nagpur to attend a friend's wedding but unfortunately the wedding was called off!
i really dont know if i should feel sorry for my friend on a human level or whether i should see the rising withdrawals in my salary account.but, truely i need to check my expenditures now onwards if i plan to gift my mother something if not very expensive on her 60th birthday in october.

anyways, nagpur was a fun trip since i could spend my time with my cousins and aunt after a very long time. my sister, who is 4 years younger, was busy giving me trips of nagpur darshan on her scooty and had almost forgotten that she had her final exams for hotel management lined up after i returned to mumbai.though i did manage to teach her basic french and to my surprise she scored 50/ 60 in her weekly test.(i guess this is a good option for career if i fail as a techno-legal consultant or as a P.M.C! any students please apply!!)

nagpur has grown over the years, apart from the increasing traffic and the resulting pollution, there is a spade of new malls and shopping plazas which are almost built without a thought of preserving the authentic feature of the city which is the combination of madhya pradeshi and maharashtrian cult curries.

interestingly, my father was responsible for the construction of one of the first few bridges in nagpur in front of the lokmat building.i feel and strongly argue with my father that a small town city like nagpur requires neighbourhood planning at root level before such massive and self impossive infrastructure is provided.

nagpur, is like any small town still as even today when girls move out to reach the U pper L.A.D college they are chased by guys and even trapped at times. sadly, there is not much that the state government is doing about this serious problem.

interestingly, i witnessed a rare sight in nagpur, windy rain!
oui, il a pleut en nagpur!!
the tempratures were dropped by a degree or two, but it still seemed to be a relief in disguise.

all in all, i felt that nagpur needs to be given a serious thought!???
no puns intended,i only meant to refer to the civilizational structurizarion of the city so as to make it a better city and as they say better people love to live in best of the cities,so here's the clue!


TFC

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

the lovely girl i have known....

the indian diva of the nautanki opera!
the enchanting muses of sanjana!
the cute little sweetheart!
sanjana and i!
children are beautiful in all sizes and at all ages.their life is full of dreams and innocent questions,so simple yet so interesting.once someone had mentioned to me that the world is so beautiful at 1.5 feet, its so true.

the life beyond those 1.5 feets is so stressful, so very sloppy that we are persuaded by time to grow into so called adults at a pace that we would never want to bid good-bye to the most enchnating period of a lifetime, the childhood.
sanjana, is my cousins youngest daughter ana being the elder one.ana is very simple and non-fussy whereas sanjana is the coquette, une jolie fille qui est tres mechante mais elle est tres belle.
she has been the candy of my eyes ever since she was born 4 years ago on 2nd dec 2002.
i still remember holding her as a 2 day baby, she was so petite, almost as long as the length of my 2 palms.
sanjana is very inquisitive and can bore one to death with constant questions, my sister has to yell at her after every 15 minutes to remind her that she should not talk so much!
if i had been an arts graduate i would have got married about 3 years ago and would have had a daughter as old as her.i believe this is the bst part about being a girl, the sense of belonging or sense of slipping into roles so quickly comes naturally to every woman at all her ages, be it as sister or friend.
i would always love her for the wonderful girl thta she is and the way she can feel close to me even after meeting with a lapse of 6 months.
i used to skate, but that was really long ago, may be 10 years ago!
but, it was difficult to beieve it myself that sanjana managed to put me into the list of her nouvelle etudiantes avec elan. it was fun being a novice and learn from the most lovely girl i have known !

bangalore 2007: marching towards the spring!!!

at bang airport before the delayed flight 525 was announced.
my best friend of last 14 years!
...ashu and i have known each other since the 6th standard so our association is beyond the fencing of worldly fences of selfishness and materialism. we are sisters, advisors, soulmates (in the right sense, we are straight and have our dedicated inclinations towards our respective interests of affection) and the best of friends as well as councillors.

over the years we have not had an opportunity to go on a vacation together, so this year we decided to go to banglore for a holiday, not a long one though but a very fulfilling one for sure.

bangalore has changed over the years,it was about 3 years ago that i had been there for a college trip,but its not the same city that it once used to be.and at such times its difficult to subside the architect in me.the city looked so disciplined in the aerial view with neighbourhood level planning , cluster concept and radial style of develpoment,but one trip from the airport to the M.G road and i was all in pain sans the happiness that i was filled with before the landing.

the roads though were clean and wide enough to serve the city traffic but que de bruit! so much of traffic!

the computer and I.T hub of india allows people to earn more and spend more so with increase in pay equals to increase in number of cars per person and mushrooming cafe coffee days.can one believe it, the M.G road is full of CCDs and the off-streets to the road are blooming with such coffee joints as well.

well, if it was in bomabay that this was the case, only and only collegians would visit the cafes more.but, the good part about bangalore is that irrespective of age and sex people move into the cafes and have meetings (well, some like me enjoyed strictly non-corporate mettings with corporate blokes).

the city is a wonder place for all book bugs like me, a series of options for readers in the book banks like gangaram's and crosswords is a real feast. something that one cant find time for in mumbai's busy and hectic life.

the city has been lucky enough to have better infrastructure and amenity services than most of the major cities in india.however, one thing that hampers the success of the infrastructural syntheses is power outage.

frequent cuts of power need to be minimized, either by application of solar systems or aide of some good "sun engineers" in helping the karantaka government in gaining support maharashtra's architectural and environmental clusters.the power outage might be the cause of the decline of the the techno-capitol de l'inde! may be some projects that convert the solar energy into the electrical energy by use of techniques such as used in the media house stations in gurgaon could be set up. water harvesting is also a good solution to overcome the water scarcity or inadequacy.

i completely identify and empathise with many of the kannadigas who just dont like a dip and bless this bliss in disgiuse,but not all fellows there are like that.the corporate offices are completely centrally optimized and hence it becomes vital that the buildings here need to be designed as multi-service intelligent buildings that have in-built facilities like sewage rejevenation, water re-utilisation plants, cooling ducts that are laid at foundation level in trenches and are attached to the main building via a pump that breathes in cool air at all times (the temprature of soil stratum at deeper level is considerably low and hence it is pumped by suction after which its is thrown through an orifice connected to a centrifugal fan that jets out the cooler air into the areas like basement which have a tendency to heated temprature levels),incinerators or garbage disposal plants and apart from that adequately spaced recreation and smoking zones within the structure itself.

the landscape is one of the major sights to look out and experience.the roads are shaded with beautiful savni, jaqurenda, casurina, copperpod, tabebua,delonix species and all the crotons and plumerian colur pallets.its wonderful and absolutely a feast for landscape lovers like me.the ulsoor lake is a beautiful recreation area though there are people who still visit the small gardens for local sight seeing!!:)))

jokes apart, the psyo-shade play is so amazing that i can spend hours and hours admiring the scenic beauty.fortunately, the city is not blessed with humid triggers and gives one dry skin and streched face , but thats only in summers,its the best place to be in rains and late winter.absolutely, and co-incidentally makes one romantic in all seasons and only for those who have good reasons to smile without a slop, just like moi meme! so, try being the guest a chez!the best place that i felt was a place that is the offshoot of a hi-fi mall ( i am not particularly a mall lover, still)called as the bangalore central at the residency road which has the copper chimney restaurant on the fifth floor. there is a series of these restaurants in bombay as well, but this place in bangalore rocks. it ovelooks the bright lights and moonlight in the projecting galleria for dining and a background score by rahul sharma,it stirs a great deal of romance within a dud like me too!so in a way, if someone wants to enjoy a week away from home, but still dont want to miss the chaos in mumbai, then go ahead and plan a trip to the worlds own paradise for romance, bangalore!!

well, no wrong notions,architectural romance is what i m referring to! so the next visit to bangalore must encompass a few good places like: the art of living ashram, the beach at suratkal and yes a periodic visit to the most favourite monument in bangalore at the langford town..........."divyashree chambers"....just to see that some fool from my fraternity has so carelessly drafted the flooring pattern increases the curiosity to see the rest of the place in close and confidential detail. what say??, anyone for a trip to bangalore, strictly to study the "modern hazards of intelligent buildings in the it hub of the world"

TFC

Monday, February 26, 2007

14th feb:1998...l'ecole!

lack of smile as usual:a stare at the photographer!
with my best buddy: the best 14th feb of my school life!
the four snobs
amruta,rujuta, myself, ashu,rahul,shreyas, rohan, aniruddha
&
chandan and the rest of 9th C guys.

Thursday, February 22, 2007

In search of Kerala waters

{ Ar.sana, Ar.sonal, Ar shruti and me!}


some photos remind me of those wonderful years in architecture when we were dreamy, and full of ambitions and at times pesimism.pesimism for some of us feared for the stores of what future has for us, which might just take away all the innocence and myths that we cherished so much.this pic is one of the expressions of awaiting for the treasures of the undisclosed future.our faces all looking upto the unknown way for better future and better prospects.my friend sana, for the first time has a decent expression and posing (thanks to me and my other team mates, we persuaded her to go a little easy on her make up and style, we dint wish that she should build a "khajuraho" in kerala's very own paradise of munnar).
as far as sonal is concerned, as usual madam wants to hurry with stuff and just wants to get rid off the picture that shruti and i forced her to be a part of.
strangely so, my self and shruti, we look to be really lost in our own world, dreaming probably that we could someday be amongst the top 2 at final year level and ditch the atkt's finally with great scores but not carry forwards!!
this is one of those pics that make me happy as they take me closer to myself, the way i was in the good old days of college!


and for the reason that i think my pic has turned out well, without much photoshop work!

Sunday, February 4, 2007

des memoires....

kasauni: a paradise in disguise


the 16th august 2006: aniversaire avec des amis et amies.

at the prize distribution ceremony: 3rd year arch!

Kovalam beach,Kerala,INDIA.



Saturday, February 3, 2007

Ronu & I...



All along these 23 odd years i silently wished for a sibling of my own.down the memory lane, i dont recollect many instances when i could enjoy a fight or defend my kid bro or sis as an elder sis or otherwise.5 years back, rohan became a part of my life and i fel in love with him!hey,hey!,there is a slight addition to this piece of information, i still love him but as a kid bro!!!

once an archi always an archi, last minute detailing variations helped the BKC'S highly luxurious and demanding project of diamond merchants under wraps for 16 long years!

anyway, rohan and i always shared a special bond,i dont care if people care but i would go out of my way to wi
n a bro like rohan.

rohan has been someone who would give me moral support and ask me advice when he required it (sadly, he never seeked one before accepting me as his sister,i am sure his life is all screwed up and not to forget completely under my rule now!).

as they say, if u dont have a foot you dont worry about a day you would seek a shoe...finally, i have found a brother for myself! all thanks to him thaough,its not easy to be associated with me in any way!

ronu,reminds me of Socrates story of success who's moral says the success of success is like the air one breathes and water gulped down,he is as precious to me and shall be thankful to him to be the "cause" of one good relationship i cherish! tough job for you ronu.

btw,ronu paid me a big moolah for this! just kidding,,, ronu has paid me handsomely for this blog but.... in terms of unexplainable and exclusive feedback of love,caring and kindness.

TFC

Wednesday, January 31, 2007

The nostalgia called college life...


Fresh air, new wisdom & new life,
that's what your college will get for you,
no matter the tonnes of stress & insanity that might arouse,
it shall always make you stronger…………………& much wiser too.

this newly acquired wisdom gifts a noveau appraoch,
a blast of new romances.
it's for you to choose the right one,
this is a dicey situation……………
…but,that's what your college life would want you to do!

distractive attractions & attractively luring offers
exam postponements..bunking lectures & dosing at home,
all these are success routes to your destination……
…………..options and unending list of solutions,
that's how your college life can systematically misguide you!!!!

a key stone to wide avenues ahead,
it's like a twist in a tale,
walking with you is your conscious consciousness,
so,handle with care &
cherish these treasures for a better tomorrow.
this is what you can do to make your college life a nostalgic bundle of joy forever.....


TFC